In celebration of the 250th Anniversary of The United States, I want to share a real experience—one that says more about this country’s spirit than any speech could. Happy birthday, America!

The Universal Language in Tampa

Last month, I watched Pitbull perform in Tampa.

Flames behind him. Thousands on their feet. A packed arena moving as one—it didn’t matter if they were Cuban, Brazilian, American, or anything in between. The music hit and everybody felt it.

He stopped at one point—right in the middle of the show—and got quiet.

He talked about music being the universal language. That it crosses every border, every barrier, every difference between people. That you don’t need to understand the words to feel the truth and the rhythm behind them.

Then he talked about the schools he built. In the same neighborhoods where the system failed him. The kid who never finished high school—building schools.

The crowd lost it. And I stood there thinking: only in America.

The Power of a Second Chance

Armando Christian Pérez, better known as Pitbull, grew up in Miami. Son of Cuban immigrants, grew up in a broken home.

Streets, drugs, no high school diploma. By every measurement that society uses to predict someone’s future, the numbers weren’t in his favor. But America has this thing that no other country has. It doesn’t always care where you started. It has this strange, stubborn, almost irrational belief that your roots don’t have to be your ceiling.

That the past is not a life sentence. That there is always—ALWAYS—room for someone willing to show up and do the work.

Pitbull found that room.

He battle-rapped on street corners until someone noticed. He knocked on doors until one opened. He built himself into Mr. 305, then Mr. Worldwide—not because life was easy, but because America kept the door unlocked for anyone willing to push.

That’s his second chance story. The rest is there for everyone to see.

America didn’t need to give me a second chance. Life gave it to me. Four times. Before I was even twenty-five. Before I ever set foot on American soil.

I remember the fall the clearest. Two stories up, and then I wasn’t. One second I had my footing, the next the ground came up too fast and everything went quiet in that strange way it does right before it doesn’t.

I remember thinking, very calmly, so this is it—and then nothing, until I was on the ground wondering why I had all the paramedics around me.

I could feel and hear everything. But I could see nothing. Loaded into the ambulance. Drove to the hospital. Then my body shut off. That’s the part nobody tells you—that you can survive the fall and still have to figure out how to stand.

That was one of four. Then, there was the drowning—not once, twice. There was the blood infection that took 57 days to let go of me. Any one of them could have been the whole story. None of them were.

By the time I landed in the US, I had already met death more times than most.

 

Nobody Told Me That, book cover

 

You survived the crash. Now, how do you stand?

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Forged, Ready, and Connecting

I arrived here forged and ready. Ready to build. Ready to connect. Ready to find my universal language. Turns out it was storytelling.

My podcast has listeners in over 100 countries. People I will never meet, in places I may never see, pressing play on stories told by a Brazilian immigrant who sells window treatments in America.

Why do they listen? Not because my life is extraordinary. But because the feeling inside the stories is familiar. The fear. The uncertainty. The moment where you almost stopped but didn’t.

The quiet victory nobody else saw.

That’s the universal language Pitbull was talking about. His is music. Mine is storytelling. But the function is the same—it bypasses everything that makes us different and lands in the place where we are all the same: Human. Afraid. Hoping. Still here.

And that right there—that shared humanity—is the whole point.

America gave Pitbull a chance to come back. America gave me a chance to expand. That’s what Pitbull and I have in common. Not the music. Not the industry. Not even the Cuban and Brazilian flags.

  • He built schools in the neighborhood that forgot him.
  • I’m writing a book for the people who almost gave up.

Different stages. Same universal language.

Warmly

 

RM I got here

P.S. —Pitbull built schools in the neighborhood that gave up on him. I wrote a book for the people who almost gave up on themselves. Nobody Told Me That comes out September 9 — pre-orders are open now, and everyone helps it find the person who needs it most. Grab your copy here, or grab the free sample chapter here if you want a taste first.

 

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